To keep or to sell (updated in July)

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I have a dilemma..  I’ve been having a clear out and have found an old doll that was either a birthday or Christmas present (can’t remember which!) when I was about 10.

I called her Pamela and she was gorgeous – dark hair (and she came with her own brush and comb set), eyes that opened and closed, she walked – and TALKED.  I also got a doll’s pram for her and used to parade up and down the street with my baby…  as I see little girls still do nearly 60 years later.

Pamela has spent the last 30+ years wrapped in a silk scarf at the back of a wardrobe.  She is in her original clothes, including the straw sun bonnet, although the white vest and socks are a bit grey.  I’ve just washed them all in the hope they’ll look a little fresher…  She still walks, her eyes still open and close, but she has long since lost her voice.

I have no children of my own to pass her to, and although I do have one special little 7 year old who loves girly things, she is in Australia and I’m not sure she’d want Pamela anyway.

It seems silly to keep her wrapped up and never seen, so I’ve checked on Ebay and there is a market for such dolls – although she won’t make me a rich woman.  Do I keep her or sell her?  And why I am really fretting about it… I have no reason to be sentimental about this.

Funny how we hang on to things from our past when they serve absolutely no purpose.

JULY UPDATE – I decided to sell Pamela and she is currently winging her way to a lady in Western Australia whom I hope will look after her 

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Author: aliveandcreaking

2012 was a year of major change for me. I turned 65 and gave up full time work and decided to build up my work as a Reiki practitioner and also to spend more time writing - a neglected hobby I have enjoyed since I was at school. The one thing I did not do is RETIRE. Since then I have trained as a civil celebrant, taking funerals and conducting baby naming ceremonies so life definitely began for me at 65! That was 8 years ago and I still haven't retired :) I continue to take funerals, as well as write for pleasure (and maybe one day publication...). I am a firm believer in staying mentally active even if physically it gets harder with age. 2020 has been a challenging year for us all, no matter what our age, but we need to stay positive. We only get one go at this life, so don't waste it!

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