What one skill would you choose for a day?

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Listening to the radio yesterday I heard DJ Fearne Cotton say she wished she could sing like Jessie J for a day, just to see what it is like, and that set me thinking.

If I could choose one skill, what would it be?  To sing like Jessie J?  To play tennis like Serena Williams?  To drive a Formula One car like a champion? To cook like Raymond Blanc?  To fly a plane?   One can argue that we can all learn these skills, but most of them take time, money – not to mention a degree of talent or at least aptitude!  I would like a ‘cheat’ day where I woke able to do something as an expert, not a novice, with no effort on my part!

My chosen skill would be to play the piano.  Well actually a bit more than that… to be able to play Brahms Piano Concerto No. 2 as well as any concert pianist and to be able to play jazz improvisations equally well.  Not much to ask really!

As I child I didn’t have piano lessons and it wasn’t until my 40s that I decided to try and teach myself.  I was able to use a friend’s piano (although he refused – wisely – to teach me), and spent many Saturday mornings practising the William Tell Overture and sundry other ‘simple’ pieces.  If my friend was in the house while I practised I would occasionally hear a distant shout of ‘Count!!” as he endured my wimpish efforts.  I am not naturally a patient person, and I used to get frustrated that I couldn’t just PLAY!  Which is why it would be such a treat to have a day when my fingers would automatically and beautifully play wonderful piano music.  Needless to say I gave up and can’t play at all.

If anyone else reads this blog, I’d be really interested to know what your ‘secret’ skill wish would be.

Bring back intuition!

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I’m reading Malcolm Gladwell’s book Blink and am finding it fascinating.  He talks about decisions we make and opinions we form ‘in the blink of an eye’ and how they are often more accurate than those made with pages and pages of research and data.  I call it ‘gut feeling’ or just plain intuition, and I believe it in very strongly.

I’m not necessarily very good at it, but sometimes I have an instant reaction to someone or something that I later dismiss, only to be proved right (in my instant reaction) further down the line.  That was often the case when recruiting staff, and I usually went against my gut instinct because others felt differently.  In two particular instances, going against my instinct (we also talk about our ‘better judgment’) turned out to be pretty disastrous, as those who were recruited turned out to be totally wrong for the organisation, and in fact did considerable damage.

So what is this gut reaction / intuition?  Where does it come from?  What part of our brain is poised to tell us instantly what’s right or wrong?  I’m no scientist, but think it must be part of our primitive brain.  Think of animals and how they seem to know instinctively when there is danger (or even the prospect of a thunderstorm!) and often react positively or negatively to some people for reasons we can’t fathom.  Is this some form of basic protection all species have?  It makes sense to me.  Our ancestors needed to respond quickly to threats, so obviously needed to be able to recognise a threat.  As we have developed we rely more on analysing situations and people in depth, so those instinctive reactions have been pushed to the back.  Yet they’re still there, and I suspect that we should all listen to that inner voice, trust our instincts and not allow other people to sway us quite so much.

Next time you get that gut feeling, stop and ask yourself ‘what makes me think this?’ You may find that first ‘blink’ is the right one!

Bear with me…

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Just in case anyone is reading any of my blogs, please bear with me as I am still learning how to build the pages!  This means that I’ve created some pages with nothing in  them yet.  It’s very time-consuming to get it right, and I am a bit of a perfectionist…  I’m also playing with different designs and backgrounds, so the site could well look totally different tomorrow, and again on Sunday.

If anyone has any tips or comments on what makes a great blog – please do tell me.  And if you think my blogs and/or pages are rubbish, constructive comments are welcome.

Thank you 🙂